Gender dysphoria is real and people that suffer from it should be cared for and helped. The suicide rate for these people is almost 40% pre and post physical treatments with drugs or surgery. If an adult wants to change their gender with drugs or surgery that is fine as long as they are over 18 and have gotten the needed counseling to help prevent self harm.
Transgender people shouldn't be mistreated or disrespected. They should be shown kindness and care. Children confused about their gender should be counseled and helped. The goal should always be to first help that person feel comfortable and happy with how they were born. If once they become an adult they want to take more drastic measures that is their choice as an adult.
This isn't an easy solution, but to act like giving kids drugs or surgery is right is insane. And pretending that their isn't just male and female is to deny science. Everyone should be able to live how they want, but we can't deny facts.
