1. Play
A. One Sunday in a
Midwest City, a young child was “acting up” during the morning worship
hour. The parents did their best to
maintain some sense or order in the pew but were losing the battle. Finally, the father picked the little fellow up and walked
sternly up the aisle on his way out. Just before reaching the safety of the foyer, the little one
called loudly to the congregation, “Pray for me! Pray for me!”
B. Top Ten reasons
why churches don’t have clown minister:
10. They force people
to smile during the 8am service.
9. You can’t say the
sermon will be given by Brother Humpty Dumpty .
8. Whoopee cushions
inevitably appear under the pew cushions.
7. Sermons take a lot
longer when they are in pantomime.
6. Many churches do
not recognize seltzer water baptisms.
5. Dribble glasses
are used for the communion service.
4. They have to pay
janitors extra to get all the silly sting off the ceiling.
3. Water squirting
flowers are inappropriate for funerals.
2. Kids keep popping
their balloon animals during prayer.
1. Haven’t you heard,
church is no place for fun.
These little jokes are examples of having fun and playing with and at church. Church IS a place to have fun and to play. While there is a time for being reserved, church should never be a place without joy.
1) Play is a way to
make our church and your life more enjoyable.
2) Stop taking
your-self so seriously, and start laughing at your-self.
3) Play is a way to
create energy, so that everyone wants to be part of it.
D. What are the
benefits of Play?
1) Happy people treat
each others better.
2) Fun leads to
creativity.
3) Playing creates
energy.
4) Church becomes a
place of joy, happiness, and more spirit-filled.
5) People want to be
around other people that are fun.
2) Fellowship outside
the church, like in small groups.
3) Singing songs of
worship with your heart and not just your voice.
4) Special events
like Ladies and Men’s fellowship and me as a speaker.
5) And my favorite,
Pot Luck Dinners.
G. Ephesians 5:19,
Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make
music in your heart to the Lord
H. What does the book
FISH say?
“Don’t misunderstand,”
said Lonnie. “This is a real
business which is run to make a profit.
This business pays a lot of salaries, and we take the business
seriously, but we discovered we could be serious about business and still have
fun with the way we conducted business.
You know, not get all uptight, but let things flow. What many of our customers think of as
entertainment is just a bunch of adult kids having a good time, but doing it in
a respectful manner.2. Make Their Day
A. Horst Schulzer is
the CEO for the Ritz-Carlton Hotel Company.
He has an uncompromising respect for people, borne out of
his love for God. Horst honors a basic
biblical principle: providing respect
and dignity for every human being. “We are ladies and gentlemen serving ladies and gentlemen,”
is the motto for The Ritz-Carlton. Horst
explains, “When making decisions, I ask myself:
Is it good for all concerned-God, the organization, the employees, the
customers, and vendors? If yes, then
drive it forward relentlessly.”
The key to Horst’s success lies in how he weaves biblical
principles and values, including respect, caring, trust, fairness, and
teamwork, into the fabric of his organization.
These values and principles have become the foundation for
Ritz-Carlton’s success.
2) Being honest with
people.
3) Caring for people
and putting their needs before your own.
2) Serving others
will give you more satisfaction in life.
3) When we focus on
the positive we don‘t get lost in the negative.
4) It is healthy, we
feel good, and unleash even more positive energy.
5) People will want
to be around you and our church more.
2) Praise each other
and show everyone love.
3) Communion Carryout
F. Ephesians 4:32, Be
kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ
God forgave you.
G. What does the
book FISH say?
We look for as many ways as we can to create great
memories. And we create great memories
whenever we make someone’s day. The
playful was we do our work allows us to find creative ways to engage our
customers. That’s the key word: engage.
We try not to stand apart from our customers but to find ways to
respectfully include them in our fun.
Respectfully. When we are
successful, it makes their day.
3. Be Present
A. Two Hundred
Cookies
A man stopped at a fast-food restaurant and placed an order
that included a cookie. The server said,
“And would you like a cookie with that today?”
The next time he returned he place the same order, cookie included, with
a different server. Again, the server
politely asked, “Would you like a cookie with that?” The third time he dealt with yet another
server. This time he was feeling a
little mischievous. He placed his order,
then added, “And I would like two hundred cookies.” To which the server said, without a trace of
irony, “I’ll get that for you, sir. And
would you like a cookie with that?”
1) “The past is
history; The future is a mystery; Today is a gift; That is why we call it the
present.”
2) It is focusing on
the person you are with.
3) It is placing God
at the center of your life.
2) Your family will
get more out of you.
3) People will get
more out of you.
4) You will develop a
closer relationship with people and with God.
5) Life will be more
fulfilling.
1) Look at the person
you’re talking to.
2) The person in
front of you should be the only person that matters.
3) Find ways to Make
Someone’s Day.
4) Choose to have a
positive attitude with everyone you meet.
5) Respect God enough
to be focused on him in worship and in life.
G. Luke 8:42-48, As
Jesus was on his way, the crowds almost crushed him. 43 And a woman was there who had been subject
to bleeding for twelve years, but no one could heal her. 44 She came up behind him and touched the
edge of his cloak, and immediately her bleeding stopped. 45 “Who touched me?” Jesus asked. When they all denied it, Peter said, “Master, the people are
crowding and pressing against you.” 46 But Jesus said, “Someone touched me; I know that power
has gone out from me.” 47 Then the woman, seeing that she could not go unnoticed,
came trembling and fell at his feet. In the presence of all the people, she
told why she had touched him and how she had been instantly healed. 48 Then he said to her, “Daughter, your faith
has healed you. Go in peace.”
H. What does the book
FISH say?
John offered a personal story. “I was living a busy life,” he said with
sadness in his voice, “trying to make ends meet and working both side against
the middle. One day my daughter asked me
to go to the park. I told her it was a
wonderful idea, but I had a lot to do at that moment. I said she should wait until later, after I
had a chance to catch up. But there
always seemed to be some urgent and pressing work to do and the days
passed. Days led to weeks and weeks to
months.” With a choking voice, he said
that four years passed and he never did go to the park. His daughter is now fifteen and no longer
interested in the park, nor, for that matter, in him. John paused and took a deep breath. “I talked to one of the fish guys about being present, and I realized how infrequently I was really present at home or at work. The fish guy invited me to visit the market with the whole family. My daughter didn’t want to go, but I finally wore her down and she came along. We had a good time, and I worked on being present with my children. When my wife took my son down the street to the toy store, I sat down with my daughter and told her how sorry I was that I really hadn’t been there for her. I told her I hoped she could forgive me and that while I couldn’t change the past, I let her know that I was now dedicated to being present in the present. She said I wasn’t that bad a dad-I just needed to lighten up a little. I’ve got a ways to go,” he said, “but I’m improving. Being present could help me recover something I wasn’t aware I had lost: a relationship with my daughter.”
That night a huge storm struck. The storm destroyed the first neighbor’s house. “What am I to do?” he cried. The storm ruined the second neighbor’s crops. “What will I do?” he lamented. The storm also destroyed the third neighbor’s home and farm. “Hmmm, what should I do first?” he asked himself and then he began doing it. He rebuilt his home and replanted his crops.
His neighbors had been sitting this entire time, feeling
sorry for themselves. But they watched
their neighbor rebuild and they decided to ask him his secret. “It is no secret,” the man said. “The only thing I own is what I think.” The two neighbors suddenly understood, and
with the third neighbor’s help, they rebuilt too.
From then on, whenever they met, they did not talk about
possessions. They talked about their
blessing, and they shared them, for what sense does it make to hold on to
something you do not own?2) You choose how you will act every moment of everyday.
3) As Christians we choose if we are going to be like Christ.
2) You will be a more pleasant person.
3) People will respect you.
4) You will be happier.
5) The Holy Spirit will have a greater impact in your life.
D. What are some ways
you can Choose Your Attitude?
1) Look in a mirror
everyday, and say “I choose to be World Famous.”2) Play at work, home, and life.
3) Find ways to make a persons day.
4) Be present in everything you do, and with everyone you meet.
5) Look in a mirror and say, “I choose to be Like Christ.”
When Sunday came hardly anyone showed up, so the minister put an ad in the newspaper. The said that since the church is dead it deserves a proper Christian burial. So he invited the town to come to church next Sunday for the funeral of the church.
The town wanting to know what a funeral for a church would
be showed up the next week. In front of
the pulpit was a coffin with flowers all over it. The minister gave his address and then
invited the people to pay their last respects to the dead church. As the people walked up they looked inside the coffin, then
turn away with a guilty look. Inside the coffin, place just right, was a large mirror.
We don’t want to have a dead church, but instead a World
Famous church.